The Proposal — NCERT Solutions

Rewritten passage with reported speech:

90-year-old A. K. Hangal, one of Hindi cinema's most famous character actors, laughingly asked why anyone would want to know his age, adding that if people knew he was so old, he would not get work. For his age, he is rather energetic. When asked what his secret was, he replied that his intake of everything was in small quantities and that he walked a lot. He said that he had joined the industry when people retired — he had been in his 40s. So he did not miss being called a star. He added that he was still respected and given work, when actors of his age were living in poverty and without work. He said that he did not have any complaints, but added that he had always been underpaid. Recipient of the Padma Bhushan, Hangal never hankered after money or materialistic gains. He regretted that although he was content today, money was important, and that he had been a fool not to understand the value of money earlier.

To report a statement, we use the reporting verb said.

The adverb of place here changes to there in reported speech.

If the verb in direct speech is in the present continuous tense, the verb in reported speech changes to the past continuous tense. For example, “I’m getting a noise in my ears from excitement” changes to was getting.

When the sentence in direct speech contains a word denoting respect, we add the adverb respectfully in the reporting clause.

The first-person pronouns I, me, our and mine change according to the subject or object of the reporting verb, such as he, him, his or his in reported speech.

Three ill effects of anger:

1. Health problems: Frequent anger raises blood pressure, increases the risk of heart disease, and weakens the immune system.
2. Damaged relationships: Angry outbursts hurt the feelings of others, break trust, and can permanently damage friendships, family bonds, and professional relationships.
3. Poor decision-making: When angry, a person acts impulsively and often says or does things they later regret, leading to mistakes that are hard to undo.

Ways to avoid losing your temper:

1. Pause and breathe: Take slow, deep breaths before responding. Count to ten silently.
2. Walk away temporarily: Remove yourself from the situation until you feel calmer.
3. Express feelings calmly: Use 'I' statements (e.g., "I feel hurt when...") instead of blaming others.
4. Exercise regularly: Physical activity releases tension and reduces stress.
5. Think before speaking: Ask yourself whether your response will improve or worsen the situation.

Benefits of anger (when channelled positively):

1. Anger at injustice can motivate people to fight for their rights and bring about social change.
2. It can signal to others that a boundary has been crossed, prompting them to change their behaviour.
3. Controlled anger can give a person the energy and determination to solve a problem.

Conclusion: Anger itself is a natural emotion; the key is to manage it wisely so that it does not harm oneself or others.

Script based on the excerpt from 'The Home and the World'

Characters: Nikhil (the husband/narrator), Bimala (his wife, the Chota Rani)

Setting: The inner apartments of a large house. The room is neatly arranged. Bimala stands near the window, dressed carefully. Nikhil enters, looking surprised.

[Nikhil enters slowly, looking around the unusually tidy room, then at Bimala. He pauses.]

Nikhil: (quietly, with a note of surprise) You sent for me? It has been... a very long time.

Bimala: (flushing slightly, fingers toying with her bangles, then looking up firmly) Yes. I need to speak with you about something important. Is ours the only market in all of Bengal that still sells foreign goods?

[Nikhil moves closer, his expression calm but attentive.]

Nikhil: (gently) What would you have me do about it?

Bimala: (with conviction) Order them to be cleared out! We must support our own country.

[Nikhil shakes his head slowly, his tone measured.]

Nikhil: The goods do not belong to me, Bimala. And the market belongs more to those who trade in it than to me.

Bimala: (stepping forward, voice rising) Then let them trade in Indian goods! How dare they be so insolent when you are the master here?

[Nikhil turns away slightly, a look of quiet sadness on his face.]

Nikhil: (firmly but gently) I will not tyrannise over them — not even for the country's sake. To tyrannise for the country is to tyrannise over the country.

Bimala: (frustrated, voice passionate) It would not be for selfish gain — it would be for the sake of the nation! Can you not see the difference?

[Nikhil moves toward the door, pausing at the threshold.]

Nikhil: (quietly, with finality) I am afraid, Bimala, that is something you will never understand. I must return to my work.

Bimala: (softly, to herself, as Nikhil exits) He does not understand. Or perhaps... he understands too well.

[Bimala stands alone, looking out of the window. Lights dim slowly.]

End of scene.

Discussion Points — Qualities to Look for in a Marriage Partner:

A successful marriage is built on compatibility, mutual respect, and shared values. Here are the key qualities one should consider:

1. Personal qualities: Honesty, integrity, and emotional maturity are fundamental. A partner who is trustworthy and responsible creates a stable relationship.

2. Appearance or looks: While physical attraction plays a role initially, it should not be the primary criterion. Inner qualities matter far more in the long run.

3. Attitudes and beliefs: Shared or mutually respected beliefs (religious, cultural, political) reduce conflict and create harmony in daily life.

4. Sense of humour: The ability to laugh together, especially during difficult times, strengthens the bond between partners.

5. Value system: Similar values regarding family, loyalty, and ethics ensure that both partners work toward common goals.

6. Compassion and kindness: A kind and empathetic partner creates a nurturing home environment, especially important when raising children.

7. Tolerance and ambition: Tolerance helps partners accept each other's flaws; balanced ambition ensures both partners grow without neglecting the relationship.

8. Attitude to money and wealth: Financial compatibility — similar spending habits and financial goals — prevents one of the most common causes of marital conflict.

9. Education and professional background: While not essential, similar educational backgrounds often mean shared interests and easier communication.

Conclusion: No partner will be perfect in every way. The most important quality is the willingness to communicate openly, respect each other, and grow together. The play 'The Proposal' is a humorous reminder that focusing only on economic compatibility, while ignoring temperament and communication, can lead to a lifetime of quarrelling!

Discussion — The Proposal and Romantic Comedies:

Yes, several parts of 'The Proposal' are very similar to scenes commonly found in romantic comedy films:

1. The nervous suitor: Lomov's extreme nervousness before proposing — his palpitations, numb legs, and twitching — is a classic comic device used in many Bollywood and Hollywood romantic comedies where the hero fumbles while trying to propose.

2. The quarrel that derails the proposal: The couple getting into a fierce argument over a trivial matter (the Oxen Meadows, the dogs) just when a romantic moment should be happening is a staple of romantic comedies. Films often show couples fighting over silly misunderstandings before finally getting together.

3. The fainting scene: Lomov fainting dramatically and everyone panicking is reminiscent of comic scenes in films where a character collapses at a crucial moment, creating chaos.

4. The rushed, chaotic proposal: Chubukov hurriedly pushing Lomov and Natalya together and almost forcing the proposal through — even as they are still arguing — mirrors scenes in films where a parent or friend desperately tries to get two people together.

5. The bickering couple: The fact that Natalya and Lomov start quarrelling again even after the engagement is accepted is a classic romantic comedy ending — suggesting that their relationship will always be lively and argumentative, but they belong together.

Conclusion: Anton Chekhov's genius lies in showing that love and marriage are not always smooth or romantic — they are often funny, messy, and full of arguments. This is exactly what makes romantic comedies so universally appealing.